Dave Venanzi
2/12/2001- 2/12/2002
what a year!

What a year 2001 was for Dave! On 2/12/01, he was diagnosed with Stage IIIB
Multiple Myeloma, a blood plasma cancer. The doctors did not seem optimistic and we
were worried but determined to make the best of the situation. Dave kept a positive
attitude and a smile on his face as he underwent the rigors of chemotherapy and a
stem cell transplant in 8/01. We had lots of support from family and friends, many
of whom traveled long distances to visit us this past year. After a relatively short
recovery time, Dave felt well enough to travel to Sulawesi, Indonesia in mid-November
to purchase items for his new business,
Southseasimports.com.

In January 2002, we found out that Dave is in complete remission!
(update 8/03- Dave has begun treatment again as he came out of remission in 12/03.)

Below is a long page, full of images of wonderful memories we have had this past year.
Thank-you all for being a part of our lives!


Dave in 8/00

 
This photo was taken the morning of 2/12/01, the day
Dave was diagnosed. We were waiting for the ambulance
to take him to the hospital when this was taken.

 
At home on 3/21/01, Dave was still quite ill,
weak, and in a great deal of pain.

 
Uncle Bud from Florida, Uncle Tom from northern
California, and Dave on 3/25/01


Aunt Kathy, Dave, Gail, Bud, and Tom on 3/25/01

 
Tiffany and Dave 4/7/01 at The Steak Out

 
Tom and Dave played a Southbound gig on
4/7/01 at The Steak Out

 
Rosa at the 4/7/01 gig

 
Gerrard, I told you to smile at the camera!

 
Liza and Brettaus 4/7/01

 
Sandy and Kathy at the gig 4/7/01

 
Slydeman Dave and Tiffany 4/7/01

 
Jocelyn and John 4/7/01

 
Dave gets wild with the shaver on 4/16/01...

 
... there it goes, it's only hair...

 
...Shinehead.
Dave has six collaped/compressed vertebrae and has lost
four inches in height, thus his midsection compression.


Pat and Dave on 4/20/01
at Sharon's birthday party

 

Carl, Claudia, and Dave

 
Sharon on her birthday with Mark

 
Cousin Scarlett from Kona, Hawaii, Yoko from Tokyo,
and Marcia from S. California visited us on 5/11/01

 
Joan, Dave, and Padre Ed
They came from Florida to visit us in 5/01.

 
Tom and Dave at the Renaissance Faire 5/12/01


 Dave, Steve, Donna, and Tom


Eat, Drink, and Be Merry!

 
Renaissance Dave

 
Dave at his favorite spot on the Palos Verdes Peninsula
5/6/01. The bandage is covering a PICC line
(peripheral intravenous central catheter); line directly to
the heart for delivering the chemo... mmmmmm good!

 
Gail and Dave on Ocracoke Island,
Outer Banks, NC 6/01

 
Dave on a pier, Hatterras Island, NC 6/14/01

 


Gail and Dave in Rodanthe, Outer Banks, NC 6/01

 
thank-goodness he can still cook! 6/01


our beloved Jack Russell Terriers,
Maggie Mae and Casey 


Dave and a Blue & Gold Macaw


Dave with Carolyn at she and
Omar's wedding 6/22/01

  
on the deck during chemo 6/01
(NOT good to be in the sun!)


Dave and Rob in the back yard 6/24/01 


Rob and Esperanza on 6/24/01 

 
Liza and Brett on 6/24/01

 
Domenic from Florida and Jane from LA on 6/30/01

 
John traveled from Florida to cook us
a gourmet meal on 6/30/01

 
Chris, Kevin, Dave, and Tom playing a
Southbound gig 7/15/01 


Dave shreds it at T J Charlyz on 7/15/01


Gail and Brother Dan at T J Charlyz 7/15/01

 
Brother Dan 7/19/02


Birthday Boy Dave and Craig on 7/19/01 at
Gladstone's For Fish in Malibu 

 
Dave cuts the birthday cake on 7/19/01

 

Kim on Dave's birthday

 
Brother Dan and Dave at LAX airport 7/01

 
Dave on 8/1/01 on the beach in Palos Verdes

 
Dave and Gail at UCLA Medical Center on 8/25/01 during his autologous stem cell transplant-
20 days in the hospital!
The mustache was the last of the hair to go!

 
home from UCLA on 9/9/01 to the delight of the dogs!

 
the central venous catheter
"Nurse" Gail had to flush and clean
this daily for several weeks

 
Dave recuperates on the sofa 9/21/01

 
keeping the bald pate warm 9/18/01

 
Sister Amy from NY, Dave, and Gail at Think Bistro 9/23/01


 
Dave and Amy at Neptune's Net
in Malibu on 9/22/01

 
Dave and Sister Amy 9/25/01
 

 
With these nurses by his side, Dave begins to regain his strength!

 
Serene Cyndee and Dave on 9/29/01

 
Dave gets hair again, Carolyn, Dave, and Omar


Tony, Dave and Omar
We know Dave lost some height,
but this is ridiculous!

 
Omar & Gail, 9/29/01

 
Teresa and Bill remove flies from each
others' cheeks on 9/29/01

 
Dave, Kim, Donna, and Tom at the San Pedro,
CA Lobsterfest 10/7/01


Dave, Tom, Cindy, John, Steve, Donna, and Kim
on 10/7/01- Lobsterfest 

 
a sip of red wine on 10/13/01 on Craig's birthday -
for medicinal purposes only!

 


Gail and Dave at The Steak Out on 10/13/01

 
Tiffany and the Harem Master at The Steak Out

 
Dave plays Susie's with Rob and the Riptones 10/13/01

 
Lori brought us a gourmet lunch
featuring her award-winning soup
on 10/18/01!

 
Gail, Dave, and Marva in 10/01

  
Dave and Tom at the blues jam at the Crest on 10/18/01

 
Wade, Gail, Marla, and Dave 10/18/01
Marla and Wade came from New Orleans to visit.


Marla beveils Dave


Wade bin Drinkin'

  
Wade removes a fly from Dave's cheek,
with Tom at the blues jam, 10/18/01.

 
Wade, Tom, and Dave show 'em how it's done!


 
10/27/01- a hint of hair!


with his pet Hahn's Macaw, Globo 11/01 

 

Dave and Gail, Torajaland, Sulawesi, Indonesia 11/23/01

 
He finds a guitar wherever he goes-
Torajaland 11/22/01

 
Daves makes Gail nervous near caves in Sulawesi!

 
a fine local Sulawesi brew!
Makassar, Indonesia 11/01


 
Dave always attracts ladies wherever he goes!
Indonesia 11/01

 

Dave and Gail and a few old friends in
Torajaland, Sulawesi 11/23/01

 

Andarias, our Torajan friend, with Dave 11/23/01

 
Dave filming Red-Knobbed Hornbills in Sulawesi


a bridge in Torajaland, Sulawesi, Indonesia

 

Dave in camoflage in a hotel room in
Singapore on 11/27/01


A new addition; Gibson L5-S, 11/01
( my back, my back, I need a lighter guitar!-Dave)


Gail & Dave at BB King's at
Universal City Walk 12/18/01

 
12/14/01

 

Tony, Cyndee, and Dave 12/14/01

 
Tony, Cyndee, Gail, and Dave on 12/14/01

 
Dave, Gail, and Tom at Sharon and Mark's
Winter Solstice Party 12/15/01

 
Dave and Tiffany on New Year's Eve, 12/31/01

 
Good-bye 2001- See ya!

 
Dave plays at Marva's birthday party 1/23/02

 
Marva removes a fly from Pat's cheek
at her birthday party 1/23/02.

 
Marva, Michael, and Honea are a colorful group
at Marvelous Marva's fabulous birthday bash!!

 
Dave plays with George's band, The Lunatic Fringe

 
On 2/12/02, a year to the day of Dave's diagnosis,
he has a full head of thick, curly, beautiful hair!

 
2/12/02, indeed this past year
wasn't a bad year after all!


The morning after Dave's diagnosis, I called a dear friend, Fred Bauer, who told me that
we would find a silver lining to the year ahead- that it would be a new adventure for us.
At the time, I could not see anything positive about the future ahead of us. But indeed,
we found a pot of gold in the love and friendship of friends and family. Thank-you all who helped us in Dave's recovery! We TRULY could not have made it through without you!

Dave's Mom, Darrellyn, and dear friend Frank Manwarren
thanks for your love and support!